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A monthly read on what phones are actually doing, what the rules are changing, and what any of it means once it reaches the device in your hand. Written by the person building ThirdLife, and honest about what we can and cannot see.

October 2026 · Essay

The part of your phone nobody will show you

Every screen time tool stops at the app door. What actually shaped you, what the feed chose and what you asked the AI assistant, is held by companies with no reason to show you. Regulators are opening the box for researchers. Not for you.

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September 2026 · Commentary

Everyone is handing out switches

Meta settled for roughly 18 billion dollars and agreed to sweeping changes on teen accounts. Ten days later Australia said it would make platforms let you turn the algorithm off. Both are controls. Neither tells you whether the control worked, and four things worth watching instead.

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